The Big Question

"When are you going to have a Baby?"

 

When you get married that is the first question everyone starts to ask you...

At first I was so FRUSTRATED at this question. come on people I just got married, give me a break.. but then if you think about it. We have been groomed to ask the next big question.

When you are in elementary school does everyone one ask those kids: What do you want to be when you grow up?

When you are in high school: Where are you going to college?

When you are in College: What is your major? Where are you going to work?

When you are dating: When are you getting engaged?

When you are engaged: When is the "big day'?

Seriously people, you wonder why this generation is so stuck on growing up, it is because every day you ask them to think ahead plan ahead and grow up. What about just enjoying the place you are in. Just enjoying dating, just enjoying the planing of getting married.. and then JUST ENJOYING being married.

I know i am frustrated because I don't wan to be placed in a box, I don't want me life to lived how other people think I should.  But I am not going to lie there are days I fill forced to live the life everyone else wants because of the demanding questions.

 Trust me; I will let you know when i am pregnant. For now I am just going to enjoy being married.