When you set a "new year's resolution" the first 2 weeks it is all forces forward to accomplish and maintain this new resolution. Well that is why I really don't set resolutions. I set GOALS.
Perhaps it is the same thing, but I think it is different.
It is something I want to complete, I am not changing horrible habits or setting great expectations that cannot be reached. To me it is something that is attainable. The goals may be hard, but it is still something I can work towards.
The hard work doesn't bother me, but the idea that it should be done correctly. This is where my frustrations begin. By asking for help and not hearing any responses to I continue forward or do I wait for the help?
Asking for help to me is not a sign of weakness. But it is more frustrating for me when I ask for help and don't receive help. Why did I ask for help in the first place?
As the New Year does provide for opportunity to start new. Maybe these goals I have set should include asking for help and being okay when help does not arrive.
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